The value of family welfare
Unfortunately, nowadays well-to-do families are rather an exception to the rule, than a norm of life. Problem families occur more often. They bring sufferings to all their members. The absence of mutual respect, concord and harmony makes family life miserable and unbearable. Only those families, where their members love each other and take each other's opinion into consideration can live happily and maintain friendly atmosphere.
Nobody will argue that family welfare is the only way for each person to live normal life and be a success in all its aspects. Then, why, despite this understanding, many people are reluctant to learn to build normal family relationships? The reasons are well-known and banal. They are lack of maturity, unwillingness for self-improvement, reluctance to find mutual understanding, inability to reach compromise, etc. All people want to have a happy family but they don't understand that building family relationships implies hard work and responsibility. Egoistic human nature often gets the better of all merits and prevents a person from self-improvement and self-cultivation. Inability to make concessions to each other is also dictated by egoism and egocentric nature.
People easily marry each other and create families but are not ready to strengthen their relations and consolidate the unity of their families. If so, why do they marry at all? The answer is very simple: their wish to marry is also dictated by mercenary aims. It means that people marry mostly to receive love and care but are not ready to share their love and care in response. Many people treat love in a perfunctory manner. For them love consists in fine words, kisses and having a good time together. This approach doesn't imply support, care and being ready for help in a difficult moment. These ideas about love and family life make all attempts to reach family welfare doomed to failure.
Family welfare is possible in those families, where people are ready to share their love and devotion with each other, where family members get pleasure from assistance they render to their dearest people in the world. These families are an example of happy and harmonious family life and they prove that tender and lifelong families are possible and real.